Sunday, November 22, 2015


I know we just chatted about Instagram the other day but here I am talking about it again.  I am much more active posting there since no writing is required.  I posted this outfit that I wore to my son's soccer practice and my blog buddy, Suzanne of Suzanne Carillo's Style, Smiles & Stories said that my outfit was Plaidtastic and I just loved the word.  So here I am today sharing 2 different plaidtastic looks.

Somehow we need to figure out how to make this into a real word.  So here are some words that have been added to the dictionary recently:
1. Fleek - I can honestly say that I have not used this word and have never heard any of my friends us it even though I know what it means.  Personally, it feels a bit too slang for a person that is a bit older to be using.  This probably sounds weird since words really have no age limit.
2. Emoji - I guess even the dictionary has made it into the digital age.  Next thing you know, they will have emoji definitions.

Speaking of words, I want to thank all of you for stopping by and reading this little blog of mine.  I am thankful for comments and I love this great blogging community!  I will be taking the rest of the week off and will be back next Monday.  If are celebrating Thanksgiving, have a wonderful time with your family and friends!

J Crew Sloan Glitter Mermaid D'Orsay, lace and palid

Plaid and lace, J Crew Cluster Flower Necklace

Outfit Details:
J Crew Black Plaid Regent Blazer with Satin Lapel Same
Loft Lace Tank Similar
The Limited Leopard Haircalf Skinny Belt Same
WHBM Jeggings Similar
J Crew Sloan Glitter Mermaid D'Orsay Flats Similar
J Crew Crystal Cluster Necklace Same
BaubleBar Mason Pave Ring, Ice Twister Ring SameSame
Old Navy Bucket Purse Similar

BaubleBar Ice Twister Ring, Mason Pave Ring

J Crew Clover Print, J Crew Factory Asymmetrical Zip Skirt in Wool

plaid and floral

J Crew Sleeveless Drapey Popover Shirt in Clover Print Same on Clearance
J Crew Factory Asymmetrical Zip Pencil Skirt in Wool Same
Banana Republic Heels Similar
J Crew Floweret Cluster Necklace Same

Wednesday, November 18, 2015

Throw Back Thursday Fashion Link Up: Burgundy Heels

Instagram is a good and bad place.  It's good in that it's connected me to people that love clothes from all over the world. It's bad in that maybe you may feel the pressure to have the perfect life attending various functions wearing fabulous clothes, eating ice cream and drinking pretty coffee drinks all day.  From what I have been reading,  I think there are people that feel they need to wear a new #ootd to make their feed interesting.

I lead a very fulfilling boring life and I am fine with that.  I go to work, work out, pick up my son and head home for homework and dinner.  On the weekends, it's grocery shopping, laundry and my son's sporting activities and attend birthday parties.  My life is far from perfect, I struggle with weight and don't know how bloggers/instagramers eat so much ice cream/donuts.  I have read somewhere that a lot of it is staged for that perfect picture and most don't even eat it.  I don't know about you, but I am not about to go and waste a tasty donut.  

Well I digress....I do love Instagram in following people and getting exposed to brands or style I would not try otherwise.  One of the stylish I follow is Clinton Kelly who was a co-host of What Not to Wear.  Way back in 2013, he did some collaboration with Macy and showed some great styling ideas. I fell in love with these boots and bought them.  

Here's another reason I love Instagram.  I fell in love with these heels which unfortunately sold out pretty quickly.  I posted it on Instagram asking for anyone that if they see them in the store to please let me know.  One of my sweet friends posted that she has a pair that she was returning because it was too big for her.  Lucky for me, they are my size.  I am excited that these beautiful heels are making it's way to me.  

What do you think of Instagram and do you feel the pressure to post perfect pictures?

Boho, Fashion Over 40

Fashion Over 40, boho style

Outfit Details:
Ann Taylor Paisley Chiffon Tie Neck Midi Dress Same on Clearance
Target Merona Fedora Similar
Fergie Rina Heels Same in Black or Bronze
H & M Fringe Purse Similar
WHBM Bijox Golden with Crystals from Swavorski Pendent Necklace Same
Ann Taylor Bracelets Same LinkSame Crystal
BaubleBar Mason Pave Ring Same
BaubleBar Ice Twister Ring Same

BaubleBar Ice Twister Ring, BaubleBar Mason Pave Ring

Here's a throw back to November 2013 when I wore these heels (original post here).  I have to say, it's sort of fun to look back at pictures.  I sure look like I could've used a few more minutes of sleep.

P.S. I will be taking the day off next Thursday to celebrate Thanksgiving my family.  TBT Fashion link up will be back on December 3rd.

Linking up with these fabulous ladies:  

Time for the link up.  I can't wait to see all the great styles out there! Please also link back my blog page to your post.  I really appreciate it and thank you so much for joining! Please make sure you stop by and check out all the great styles that are linking up too.

Sunday, November 15, 2015

Irresistible Me Review

I am feeling a bit broken hearted upon hearing the news of what is happening about the world.  As a parent, I try my best to shelter my child from these type of news and don't know how to explain to him why these bad things happen.  I know there's nothing I can do to change how these people behave but hope that if we all have actions with good intentions to everyone that it will spread and end these type of senseless violence.  

On a totally different note, I wanted to share my opinion of the Irresistible Me Sapphire 8 in 1 Complete Curler.  I was reached out by Irresistible Me to try the wand and I was hesitant at first since I never talk about much beauty on the blog.  Then I thought that although I don't talk about it it doesn't mean I don't care about how my hair looks.  When I get dressed for work, I do make sure that I am presentable not only in my clothes but me in general.  

All my life, my hair has been a pain because: 1.  I've had pesky grey hair since high school, 2. my hair is very fine and thin and 3. my hair never holds any hair styles I do.  Because of these things, I have kept my hair do pretty low maintenance.  My hair routine consisted of washing hair or dry shampoo and a straightener.  Some days I would use a curling iron but the curls would be done by lunch time.

As the name suggests, this wand has 8 different type of barrel to create different curls from ringlets to beach waves.  The smaller the barrel, the tighter the curls.  They even have a sort of cone shaped wand that gives you loose and tight curl in one.

 I have to tell you a funny story about what happened with my wand.  I was so excited and didn't read the instructions and pretty much just picked a wand and plug it in and played with it.  I selected the pearl barrel because it was just so different and it created a very curly hair style which did not suit my face.  Then I could not for the life of me figure out how to take out the barrel.  I exchanged emails with Blair at Irresistible Me and she was very nice and sent me videos but it did not work.  She sent me a prepaid postage to send back and was going to send me a new curler for review.  
As a last resort, I took it to my hair stylish and she pulls the barrel right out of the wand! Yup, I told you I am hair tool challenged.  Since then I have figured out how easy it is to interchange the barrels.  

I have never used a wand before and it took a little getting used to.  The kit also comes with a glove for the hand that is wrapping the hair around the wand.  I highly recommend using it since the barrel does get hot.  Speaking of temperature the wand heats up very quickly and goes up to 450F, I have been using it at 370F and it seems to work well.  

My favorite size so far is the 25MM which gives a loose curl effect that I prefer.  I added some styling balm and my curl lasted the whole day!  It actually retained the curls the next day and I use the wand to freshen some of the curls.

So would I recommend the curler, yes!  I love the idea of having so many options and how easy it is to use.  If you have any questions about it, please let me know.  I think that wand would make a great Christmas gift.  Thank you Irresistible Me for introducing me to a great hair tool.  

You can see my loose curls results below.

J Crew Rhodes Blazer in Houndstooth, Loft Wooly Shift Skirt

Office Style, Fall Style, Fashion Over 40

Outfit Details:
J Crew Rhodes Blazer in Houndstooth Same
Ann Taylor Top Similar
Loft Wooly Shift Skirt (last worn hereSame
Tory Burch Robison Middy Satchel Similar
WHBM Bijoux Goldtone with Crystal from Swarovski Pendant Same
BauableBar Mason Pave Ring Same
Banana Republic Adelia D'Orsay Heels Same in Current Colors

BaubleBar Mason Pave Ring, jewelry detials

Wednesday, November 11, 2015

Throw Back Thursday Fashion Link Up: Black and White Stripe Skirt

I love anything that's black and white.  In fact, I used to buy mainly black and white because it was so easy to get ready.  I have expanded colors in my closet beyond the colors of the rainbow and still reach for basic black and white when I am stuck in finding something to wear.  

One of my favorite piece in my closet is this black and white stripe skirt from White House Black Market.  It's a heavy knit that can be worn year round and of course, it can be worn any color. 

WHBM Knit Stripe Skirt

Pattern Mixing, J Crew Silk Zip Tank, WHBM Calfhair Leopard Satchel

Outfit Details:
J Crew Silk Zip Tank Same on Clearance 
WHBM Stripe Knit Skirt Similar
Jessica Simpson Weelee - Natural  Watersnake Heels Same
J Crew Blooming Crystal Pendant Necklace Similar
The Limited Scarf Similar
WHBM Calfhair Leopard Satchel Same on Clearance
Ann Taylor Bracelets SameSame

Pattern Mixing, Fashion over 40, J Crew Silk zip Tank

Ann Taylor cashmere poncho, Shoedazzle Minji Heels

Outfit Details:
Ann Taylor Cashmere Poncho Similar
The Limited Leopard Cuff Similar
ShoeDazzle Minji Heels Similar

Fashion Over 40

This skirt made it's first appearance back in July 2015 (original post here).

Linking up with these fabulous ladies:  

Time for the link up.  I can't wait to see all the great styles out there! Please also link back my blog page to your post.  I really appreciate it and thank you so much for joining! Please make sure you stop by and check out all the great styles that are linking up too.

Sunday, November 8, 2015

Double Plaid

Now that mother nature's finally got the memo that it's fall, I am starting to wear more of my fall items.  I recently purchased this green plaid cardigan and paired it with a summer gingham top.  Even though I say we have cooler weather, it's still really not that cold so a sleeveless shirt underneath works really well.  

When I was trying to figure out what to write about today, I was searching on the internet for different types of plaid.  We may think of plaid as fall/winter print but it really is a year round pattern.  I think it all just depends on the fabric and colors of the plaid item.  Light fabric such as madras plaid or a cotton gingham works better for warmer months.  Anything wool or flannel will be for the colder months.  

I learned that houndstooth is considered a plaid pattern too. Do you know why it's call houndstooth?  It's because the corners of the check are notched to resemble a dog's tooth.

And there my friend is your useless information for the day.  Please feel free to share any useless random information, it's always so fun to read them.

Target Open Plaid Cardigan, WHBM Haircalf Leopard Satchel, Target Terri Lace Up Wedge Booties

Fashion Over 40, Target Open Plaid Cardigan

Outfit Details:
Loft Top Similar
Target Merona Plaid Open Cardigan Same
Gap Jeans Similar
Target  Merona Terri Lace Up Wedge Booties Same
Old Navy Hat Similar
WHBM Leopard Calfhair Satchel Same on clearance
Loft Bracelet Similar
BaubleBar Pave Mason Ring Same

Linking up with these wonderful ladies: Sunday Sunday Link Up, Funday Monday, Mingle Monday, Not Dead Yet Style,  Fizz & Frosting, Corporate Chic, Pink SoleMore Pieces of MeA Touch of TartanWhitney Nic JamesMahagony ClosetStyle Nudge,Beauty by Miss L,  Not Dressed As LambMichelle's PaigeNorthwest BlondeA Little Bit of CheerA Lovely Little Wardrobe & Whitney a la ModeReasons to DressStyle Elixir's Style SessionTwo Peas in a BlogMyriad Musings Garay TreasuresI do deClaire,  Trend Spin Link UpDC In StyleMama and MoreShopping my ClosetBless Her Heart Y'allElegantly Dressed & StylishSandy a La Mode & Cute & Little, Because Shanna Said SoThe Pleated Poppy, Classy Yet TrendyBook of LeisureCappuccino and FashionPampers & Pearls,  Sydney Fashion HunterThe Stylish HousewifeFor the Love of LeopardPastries, Pumps & PiColor and Grace and Pumps and Push Ups.

Wednesday, November 4, 2015

Throw Back Thursdays Fashion Link Up: Fall Colors

I try not to take things too seriously and I hope that comes across on my blog.  I debated about sharing these photos today because in my head, I LOVED the concept of wearing fall colors.  I thought I look like I could blend in with all the pretty fall leaves on the ground (just not California but some place that really has fall).  In real life, I am not so sure how much I really liked it since it feels like I sort of blend together.

If you are a blogger, I would love to know how do you decide what makes the cut to share.  

Fashion Over 40, Ted & Muff Boots, WHBM Leopard Calfhair satchel

In not taking myself too seriously, here 'a picture of me dreaming of fall to arrive in California! My hubby and I are lazy and take 3-5 photos for each outfit and we are done.  I am way to lazy to recreate an outfit just for the sake of taking a better photo.

Outfit Details:
Loft Sleeveless Mixed Media Shirt Same
Loft Wooly Shift Skirt Same
Old Navy Textured Knit Boyfriend Cardigan Same
WHBM Leopard Calfhair Satchel Same on Clearance
J Crew Necklace Similar
Loft Necklace Similar
BaubleBar Mason Pave Ring Same
Target Fedora Similar
c/o Ted & Muffy Boots Similar

Fashion Over 40

Since all of my clothes from today's outfit are recent purchases, here's a throw back to one of my favorite outfits from November 2013.  Original post here.

Linking up with these fabulous ladies:  

Time for the link up.  I can't wait to see all the great styles out there! Please also link back my blog page to your post.  I really appreciate it and thank you so much for joining! Please make sure you stop by and check out all the great styles that are linking up too.

Sunday, November 1, 2015

Sweater Vest

For those that celebrated Halloween, I hope you got more treats than tricks.  As a huge fan of Halloween, we had a blast!  This year my son begged to be something scary and gory but I was not ready for a scary 7 year old yet.  I am secretly trying to keep him as sweet and innocent as long as possible.  

We compromised and got him a skeleton costume.  We ordered it online and of course, when it arrived, the mask was a lot more scary than I wanted to be.  

You can see pictures below of our family of skeletons.

I wore this outfit this past Friday to my son's school Halloween parade.  Let's just say it was totally the wrong thing to wear.  We went outside and one of our trees were knocked by high winds overnight.  So off with the hat since it was way to windy.  

We have something called the Santa Ana Winds and along with high winds are high temps.  I guess I didn't see the weather forecast and was set on wearing this outfit.  It was HOT! in the upper 80s so off the sweater vest.  By the time the parade was finished, I was drenched in my long sleeve shirt and had to go home to change.  I guess this outfit was just not meant to be.

Do you plan your outfits based on weather forecast?  I think it's time I start paying closer attention.

Pattern Mixing, Fashion Over 40

Banana Republic Drapey Open Sweater Vest, Pattern Mixing

Outfit Details:
Banana Republic Drapey Open Sweater Vest (worn hereSame on Clearance
Ann Taylor Top Similar
WHBM Denim Skirt Similar
Old Navy Hat Similar
WHBM Necklace Similar
WHBM Leopard Haircalf Satchel Same on Clearance
WHBM Leather Ankle Moto Boots Same
BaubleBar Mason Pave Ring Same
WHBM Bracelets SameSame

BaubleBar Mason Pave Ring, WHBM pave link bracelet

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